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Sunday, March 13, 2016

SOL16 #13 Bridal Shower Blues

Today I attended a Bridal Shower for a cousin of my husband.  This was the first shower I had been invited to in many years and I am aghast at how they have changed.  There was one game, lifting the plate and seeing who had the groom's picture and two door prizes.  

There were no get to know you games that helped the guests mingle and find ways that the knew the bride and groom.  I know the games are hokey, but they are a way to make the day fun and possibly make a new friend.  When I inquired, I was told that wasn't the way it was any more.  I must say it was a snoozer of an afternoon.

I have to plan and execute a Bridal Shower in the early fall, the bride-to-be was at the bridal shower I attended to day we had the following text message conversations.




I think she thinks I am kidding, but I am not.  The idea of sitting at a table staring at the person sitting across from talking about absolutely nothing important, just seems like the waste of a day! She doesn't want to have a traditional shower, I think bowling would be a great way to have some fun and celebrate her!  Really I do, I know you agree, right?  Maybe a Zumb-a-thon

4 comments:

  1. You made me laugh! I agree with you it can be a bit boring at times! So much has changed what I'm amazed with is the bachelor and bachelorette today . . . Cruises, Las Vegas, and all at the cost of the bridesmaids and groomsmen!

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  2. I recently attended a snoozer of a baby shower. We just basically had to grin and bare the awkward silence until the presents were unwrapped. Give me a gross game anyday! Sheesh!

    I would recommend an outing for the bridal shower-- like going out on a boat or going bowling as you suggest. Something different and competitive or challenging.

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  3. I recently attended a snoozer of a baby shower. We just basically had to grin and bare the awkward silence until the presents were unwrapped. Give me a gross game anyday! Sheesh!

    I would recommend an outing for the bridal shower-- like going out on a boat or going bowling as you suggest. Something different and competitive or challenging.

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  4. I hate both bridal and baby showers especially the games. When I had my daughters we had a vintage housewife theme and guests dressed up as a retro housewife. It was hilarious. We had retro foods like finger egg salad sandwiches and jello molds. Played retro games. We made it a fun day! Make and plan what you think the bride will enjoy!

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